One In A Million

So my past entries have been all about things going on in my life, but now its time to move on to things that I can state my opinion on.

Sex is not everything. But in our society that's what it has come to. I've met dudes at 10 p.m. and by 10:10 they are already asking me to have sex in an indirect way. Its really sad that so many females feel this way, but quite frankly, we've gotten used to it, and we accept it to a certain level.

Its just not attractive for a guy to talk about sex within the first few minutes of meeting a female. NOT EVERY female is hoe out here! There are some of us who don't want to have a one-night-stand with you, or who even still claim to be on the Virgin Island! It especially bothers me when a good looking dude, or even a guy who has lot going for himself stoops to that level of asking for sex before you even know my last name.

Not to get too serious out here, but its reality, STI's and HIV are spreading and you would think people would be more careful. A condom can't prevent you from getting herpes! So why are you poking everything that walks by with a nice body! I know some of the most georgous females who have herpes, and ghonorea! If she's fine enough for you to try to hit, don't you think other dudes have hit before too?!? More than likely if she looks good and gives it up to you, she's done it before and it probably won't be her last time.

I feel like sex is used as a way to form a male's identity in some cases. They feel as though they need to go out here and "sow their wild oats" in order to be excepted by their peers. But someone has to stand up and be different. AND I KNOW there are some of you guys out there! I'm not one of these male-bashing females. I do believe there are some good guys who are not hoes and want love with sex.

You're just one in a million.

Sex is physical. But I think it can be controlled on a mental level when that individual wants to. Abstinence isn't easy, but it makes the moment that much better when you wait. If I could get that thought through to my peers I would be good to go!

Such is life...

New York

This past weekend me and my girls decided to take a random trip to New York City. We ended up leaving out early on Saturday morning -- which turned out to be a stuggle for me! We searched for about 20 minutes for a 24-hour paarking spot in DC. HA! We finally found one at Union Station. Proceeding out of Union Station we used Sasha, a portable navigation system, to find our way to I St. where our bus left from. Let's just say that we won't be using that bus line anytime soon! The smell from the bus made me nausous, so the 4 hours to NY were the longest in my life.

Upon arriving in New York (Chinatown) we headed to Penn station to go down to Jersey to meet up with one of my girl's aunties!

We got to Jersey around 3:30 p.m. and decided to head over to Rutgers to visit the campus. I was thinking about Rutgers for grad school, but after visiting discovered that I don't really want to head that way. The campus was really nice, but its not the "feel" that I want. At least I think. We'll see about other grad schools later on.

Besides going to Jersey we didn't do much else. But it was a good time anyway. Everytime I go to NY I fall in love all over again. Besides the weird people and delayed subway trains, I just love being in the environment. NY has a place for everyone, you just have to give it a chance.

Who knows what the future holds for me...until next time -- PEACE & LOVE:)